In school life, I have learned many of things that helped me in the life a lot. However, still, there are many things I wish school would have taught me and would have helped me the rigorous process of life. In this article, I have jotted down a few things that I wish school would have taught me.
The Rule of 80/20
It is one of the easiest ways of using your time more efficiently. In turn, 80% of the value you earn will come from 20% of you, also known as the Pareto Principle. 80% of your market activities. Too much you do may not be as beneficial to do or even as you may believe to be necessary.
You can either take a lot of stuff – or decrease your time significantly.
If you do, you will have much more time and energy to put your worth, satisfaction, fulfilment, and so on into those things.
Batching the Activities
Boring or repetitive activities can cause a great deal of anxiety and deterioration. One right way to efficiently handle these things is to load them. And you do all of them in succession.
You can do it more comfortable since the start-up time is less than when you spread them out. And then when you batch, you get completely involved and focused on the tasks.
A batch of things to do today in one hour can sound like: clear your desk, respond to the emails today, prepare your meals, make three calls and write tomorrow’s food shopping list.
Be a Proactive Person and Not a Reactive Person
That links up with the final piece. It would be very little if everyone is reactive. You could sit down and hope for some other. It is very frequent, well before it occurs this can take a long time.
A more useful and advantageous approach is to be cautious, to avoid being lazy and take the first real move to get the ball to roll.
Not only does this save you a lot, but it also makes it more fun, as you know like you have control over your life. You are led by a random bunch of outer powers rather than feeling like you are.
Give Value To Others and Gain It For Yourself
That is counter-intuitive. There is also an idea that someone can give us something or do something for us before we give it back. The problem is that many people are thinking like that. And less is given as far as possible.
You must increase the value to increase the value you receive (money, love, friendliness, opportunities, a larger audience, etc., for what you create). And you get what you offer over time. Maybe it would be good to get anything. It occasionally occurs, however.
The Parkinson’s Law
Things can be achieved faster than you believe. This law says that, depending on the time, a job can increase in time and seemingly complexity. If, for example, you suggest that you will come up with a solution within one week, the problem will become harder and more time will be spent trying to find a solution.
Concentrate your time on solutions. Then take an hour (rather than the whole day) or the day (rather than the entire week) to solve the problem.
It forces the mind to concentrate on ideas and interventions.
The outcome may not be as good as if you are spending a week on the job, but 80% of the value is still 20%, as stated in the last point.
Alternatively, if you have not done too difficult or overpolished things, you will end up with a better result. It makes you do things better and increases your concentrating capacity, allowing you more free time so you can concentrate on yourself entirely rather than a mission in the back of your mind that is inevitable.
Accepting Your Failures and Mistakes
You only try things when you are young and struggle before you understand. When you grow older, for example, you learn from school and make no errors. And you are trying less and less stuff.
It can cause you to avoid being proactive and become used to being reactive, to expect someone else to do something.
I say, what if you tried and failed something? Could people laugh at you?
Maybe you would do it. However, you soon remember as you witness that it is rarely the end of the planet. And people do not think that much so certain occasions.
You have to think about your problems and lives. And success in life is always due to failure and failure not to give up. It is because it is constant. You can fall back and forth when you first learn how to ride your bike. Cry a little and bruise a knee. But you do get up and dust off and get back on the horse. And you learn to ride a bike finally.
You would have a lot of exciting stuff, learn useful lessons and have a little more success if you can only reconnect with your 5-year old self and do something in this way – instead of giving up after a loss or after a failure or two as younger people sometimes do.
It is fun to meet new people. However, nervousness can also cause you to be afraid of meeting others. We want a good start, and we do not want to get stuck in a tough conversation. The only way to do this is to take up relationships. You pretend to meet another of your best friends. Rather than the nervous one, you begin interaction in this frame of mind.
Interestingly, this works well.
Do Not Beat Yourself
After a few errors or defeats, why do people give up? Ok, because they are beating so much, I think one great excuse. However, it is somehow useless. Just more and needless suffering will be generated and your precious time wasted. The best thing is to do as hard as you can to drop this habit.